Help for domestic violence

Domestic violence is a pattern of verbal or physical abuse that one person in a relationship uses to control another. It is not the same thing as a basic disagreement or conflict. This abuse can happen with any couple whether married or unmarried, heterosexual or gay. Often the emotional and psychological affects are detrimental and long-lasting to victims, including children who witness such abuse.

You may need help if your partner does any of the following:

  • Calls you names
  • Prevents you from contacting family or friends
  • Withholds money
  • Interferes with you getting or keeping a job
  • Threatens or inflicts physical harm
  • Assaults you sexually
  • Stalks you
  • Intimidates you
  • Limits your freedom

Physical and sexual assaults are crimes. Although emotional, verbal, psychological and financial abuses are more difficult to prove, all of these types of assaults have negative affects on a person's emotional well-being, including how he or she is able to function at home and on the job.

Remember:
You are not alone. You are not at fault. You can get help.

The Nest offers individual and supportive group counseling and for victims of domestic violence.

If you feel like you are in danger, immediately call the police. Keep these numbers with you at all times.

24-Hour resources in Lexington:
Division of Police 911 or 258-3600
Bluegrass Domestic Violence Program 1-800-656-4673
District Court Clerk - Protective Orders 246-2248 (weekdays)
  246-2228 (after hours and weekends)
Sheriff's Office 252-1771
Elsewhere in Kentucky: 1-800-544-2022

To talk with someone at The Nest about concerns related to domestic violence, contact:
Sharon Kopyc, Director of Clinical & Community Services
859.259.1974
Email